It’s party time!

By Jean Johnson, M.Ed.
Health Educator, McLeod County Public Health

What kind of celebration are you planning for your high school graduate? Will your celebration include serving alcohol? The problem of youth alcohol use is often blamed on a teen’s inability to “just say no”. Yet the reality is that young people get mixed messages from adults and communities about alcohol. Parental messages of concern must begin early and be reinforced regularly throughout a young person’s school career. It is essential that parents make it clear that the no-alcohol, no-tobacco, no-drug rule remains the same at all times – in your home, in a friend’s home, anywhere your child is. This includes high school graduation parties.

Some people may provide alcohol at a graduation party because they believe it is the social norm, and perhaps they “have to”. One of the social norms we have to look at is the unwritten thought that alcohol is a “right of passage” for young people. This is partially played out by providing alcohol at the high school graduation. Since this is a celebration of the young person, and their friends usually attend, all of whom are underage, providing alcohol at this event is not appropriate.

Adults must be aware of the criminal and civil liability for anyone who provides liquor to a person under age 21 years of age. Kevin’s Law makes it a felony to provide alcohol to a person under 21 years of age if that person causes or suffers death or great bodily harm. Civil Cause of Action Law makes it possible for any adult to be held liable for providing alcohol to someone under 21 if that intoxicated person causes damage to themselves, others or property. Turning a blind eye to a young person’s use, or saying you “didn’t know” he of she was drinking alcohol at your party, may not protect you from being held liable.

Most adults condemn youth alcohol use through their words, but their actions often encourage or allow youth to use alcohol. While there are multiple influences on the use of alcohol, what parents say and do about substance use is more important than any other single variable. Parents need to realize that they are the role models for their children. Alcohol use is not essential for the enjoyment of family or social events or for celebrating success. It seems that adults are the ones who need to learn how to “just say no”.

If you would like more information about alcohol use and teens, non-alcoholic party beverages, or would like to become involved in helping keep alcohol away form youth, you can call your local public health agency.